Film Review – You’re Cordially Invited

February 2nd, 2025 | POSTED BY Allen Almachar

You’re Cordially Invited (2025) is the kind of rom com that would’ve seen a big theatrical release twenty years ago. Two big stars, a screwball plot, and just the right amount of earnestness was once the key ingredients for drawing an audience. Sadly, in recent years this type of project has been reserved for the wasteland that is online streaming. But for those that want their escapism light and fluffy, this might be worth your effort to seek out. No, it doesn’t do anything we haven’t already seen from the genre. All the usual tropes are there – we can see where things are going long before the characters do. But it is funny, charming, and does exactly as advertised. 

Writer/director Nicholas Stoller is no stranger to this arena, having given us the likes of Forgetting Sarah Marshall (2008), The Five-Year Engagement (2012), and Neighbors (2014). He continues the trend with this latest effort, setting up a ludicrous premise and letting the hijinks play out. Jim (Will Ferrell) is a single father helping to give his daughter Jenni (Geraldine Viswanathan) the wedding she deserves. He books a lavish island resort – a place that he holds dear to his heart. The problem is that Margot (Reese Witherspoon) – a producer of trashy reality TV – has also booked the same island for her sister Neve’s (Meredith Hagner) wedding on the same day. Two wedding parties, same place, same day. What could possibly go wrong?

It all sounds so ridiculous, doesn’t it? I’m sure in reality, this type of slip up would’ve been caught and corrected long in advance. But this isn’t reality, is it? In a not-so-shocking turn of events, Margot and Jim agree that the two parties will move forward with their weddings, sharing the venue accordingly. That is all that’s needed to create a contrast between the two sides. Almost immediately, Jim and Margot create a rivalry that only seems to belong between them. Whether that means fighting for space, amenities, services, or just simply wreaking havoc upon the other’s plans, their dynamic is one of increasing one-upmanship. Now, if you are familiar with the basic formula of the genre, you know what their resentment toward each other will lead to, right?

Will Ferrel and Reese Witherspoon are on their games in the lead roles. They bring a ton of charisma and energy. The biggest highlight is seeing the two bounce off each other with their comedic sparring. Ferrell plays Jim as an overbearing father toward his daughter. He is so worried about Jenni leaving him that he wants to be in every aspect of her life – whether that is living near each other, helping with the planning, or even baking the wedding cake himself. One of the funnier running gags involves Jim dying his hair a different color than his beard – he’s not fooling anyone. For Witherspoon, she gives Margot a jaded, cynical demeanor. Margot is not close with her family, and her relationship with her mother (Celia Weston) is particularly toxic. She unloads her bitterness upon her siblings, especially Neve. Both Jim and Margot arrive at the island carrying their own emotional baggage and are forced to deal with them head on.

Above all else, the biggest question about You’re Cordially Invited is whether it’s funny or not. In that regard, I would say yes. Stoller is more than willing to inject some unfunny slapstick (the whole bit involving Ferrell wrestling an alligator was just plain dumb). But for the most part, there are laughs to be had. Sometimes the jokes are broad, such as Jim and Jenny singing an inappropriate song during the rehearsal dinner. Other times, the humor is more character driven. This would include small things, like Margot’s brother (Rory Scovel) being too dimwitted to realize calling his spouse “The Wife” is a bad thing, or how her older sister (Leanne Morgan) is so sex crazed that she would jump on anything with a pulse. There’s also Jenni’s bridesmaids, who flock to her like a protective shield of human bodies, or Margot’s assistant (Vinny Thomas) who questions why he’s even there at all. It’s all these little morsels of comedy that all add up to a larger positive.

Rom coms are not exactly the standard platform for cinematic experimentation. Normally, the camerawork features your usual medium shots, where characters are seen from the waist up, and conversations are captured from an over the shoulder, back and forth fashion. That approach is executed here as well (as expected), but Stoller does leave room for some stylistic flourishes. One of the biggest laughs I had was when Jim tried to sneak away from Margot while in a crowded room. The blocking and composition make what is supposed to be an ominous moment hilarious because we can see Jim in full view trying to slither his way out of sight. Another memorable moment happens during a montage late in the runtime. While I won’t give away spoilers, I will say the editing makes excellent use of Ferrell’s face. It’s hard to see the guy break out a huge smile and not smile along with him.

Look, I get it. Romantic comedies are a dime a dozen. We are aware of this song and dance, so much so that we can probably guess where Jim, Margot, the wedding party, and everyone else will eventually end up. There are plenty of other films that tell the same kind of story but better. But you know what? Sometimes that doesn’t matter. Your Cordially Invited is silly and predictable, but it is also heartfelt and at times really funny. This is a case of a movie catching me at the exact right place and time. What can I say? I had fun with this one.

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